Happiness- Kahan ho tum ??

Hello guys !! back again. hahahah not really. I had been procastinating it for a whole month. But here I am. Writing to you. Trying to talk to you. Maybe you think this is a one sided communication. But no !! It is 2-sided. Uk how ??
 Whenever I sit and write a blog, I imagine saying it to someone I talk to. Now that could be you, right now reading this. Anyways, don't we all know how much hurtful can a one-sided communication be. How can I hurt you, right ?? :)

Vaise toh mai iss baar new year resolutions pe likhne wlai thi. But aaj, after a discussion I had with my WISE friends ( :P ), I have decided today we will talk about HAPPINESS.
Yeah fine, I know meko yeh topic bahut pasand hai and I finally end up on this topic in every blog more or less. But that is missing in our life anyway. Aur ek baat ko baar baar bolo, tabhi jaake smjh aati hai. ( Indians hain na. paidayishi dheeth :D )

Toh aaj firse ek sawaal. Happiness ka address kya hai ?? (sbse pehle meko hi bta do. bde dino se dhoondh rhi hu :) )

Ik ab tum soch rhe hoge.... yeh kaisa sawaal hai. And thats ohkay!! Coz agar koi meko bhi yeh poochhta toh mai bhi aise hi react krti, But koi toh jagah hogi na jahan log "happiness" ko SELL krte honge. Usse zyada koi availability meko toh ni lgta aaj kal hai. Kahin market mein stock ki kami toh ni hai ;)

Isse meko woh quote yaad aya. " Don't search for happiness at the same place you lost it." Pr bhai log, dhoondhne ki baat toh hm tbhi kr skte hain jab hmein pta ho ki woh hai kya.

But  I guess... hum toh woh bhi bhool chuke hain. Haan mana har bande ke liye happiness ki definition alag hoyegi. But instead of being different....we have strained into certain parameters. Haan you have dis... You can be happy. You dont have it... You are supposed to be sad.

But why don't we create our own happiness. (That is why I am writing this right now. Coz it makes me happy :) ) Achha btao happiness kahan se create hogi. jab people start judging what you feel. And such strong are the impacts that you suddenly start judging your own feelings. Ab iske baad bhi kahin happiness ka scope bach jata hai kya ?? Meko toh ni lgta.

Ik iske baad mai bol skti hu ki sbki baat sunna bnd krdo. Sabko inni importance dena chhod do. But since I have tried it already... I know that it won't make too much of a difference. So I wont suggest that to you.

Toh ab karein toh karein kya ??

Chalo suno. Yeh toh hm sbi ko pta hai ki kids are much much happier than us. So why not be the kid that you hide in yourself. Exactly. Stick your tongue out to small children. Pass smiles to people on street you don't even know. Sit in your room and eat a whole chocolate all by yourself ( I am still to do dis in my life though :P ).  Sing those nursery rhymes with your siblings.  Copy people on TV. Make faces behind people's back( or maybe on their faces. Jut don't blame me if you ever get punched. I have tried it and by God's grace, I have never been punched at least :P )

To end with it.... han han pta hai meko bahut bolti hu mai.... Yaar ek realization lif emein jitni jaldi ho jaye na. utne khush rhoge. Duniya toh tumhari khushiyon se jalti hai. toh tum kaise expect kr skte ho ki koi tumhari khushi ka reason bne. Don't give the key of your happiness into anyone lese's hand but your very own..!!

Read Ahead and Discover :)

If you ask me what prompted me to write this piece; then i would say that I don't know. As I type this I don't even know so as to what am I gonna write about but I just hope I will get something concrete anyway.

So, before I start trying to help you out, I would just like to ask "How are you feeling right now??"
Your answers would range from something like freaking awesome( tabad tod in my language) to sort of sad.
Now take just 2 minutes out of your oh-so-busy schedule and think about today. What all happened ??
Something like you didn't submit the HA to your teacher; you had a fight with one of your friends; someone you really wanted to talk to didn't try talking to you today either; or maybe you laughed like idiots with your friends today. Anything. And everything.

But lemme ask you something. How often do you let such petty issues disturb your sleep ??

I think it would be sort of tiresome to list your problems. Obviously you know it much better than me. According to me, its not the problem we are sick of. Its the solution for that problem which we are looking for constantly. And now what's better is that I am gonna give that solution to you; beautifully decorated in the platter. Your only work is to EAT it. :D

The whole day you work so freaking hard. I know. ( Hey!! Did you take that seriously?? I think even you know how HARD your life is anyway. Don't you ?? Go read my previous blogs then.)

But I don't feel that it would be too difficult for you to spare just 5 minutes before you sleep, to make your life better.

Now, getting to a bit of work. I hope you know that your mind is nothing but a big, BLANK screen. So, choose your best picture and fix it right there on your mind's screen  for those 5 minutes.( You might indulge in self-appreciation. I don't mind. I do that all the time. :D )

Next,you just need to slice a part of your head in that picture of yours. Try it yourself. Trust me, its fun. So, if you notice it now, you have an open mind.( And don't forget. Its freaking EMPTY :P)
I hope you already know what is it that is troubling you. Take its worst possible picture. And imagine yourself first putting it into your head and then taking it out with all your might. Do this with everything that causes a problem to you. Be it people, things, books. Anything. Everything.

Did you notice?? You just emptied your mind.( It was already empty vaise. But you just need toh ave that experience of emptying it yourself.) So, now there is more than enough space for things you love. Why not put them back to where they should belong. :)

After you are done with this in-and-out stuff, please don't forget to reseal your minds.( Else it would all sort of flow out again.)

Try this for just 5 days and you will feel better. I say this with personal experience.

PS-Here is a brownie point cause I love you reader!! Everytime you find yourself thinking about that which you pushed out of your mind... just tell yourself once that you have already sent it out and it no longer a part of life. The more you tell this to yourself. the more you will find it taking a backseat in your life in reality.

PPS- Be happy. You won't get another life anyway.

This one: For all my heartbroken friends :)

You have lived without them before
And you will learn to live that way again.
But what about the void in your life
That feels like being without an umbrella in the rain.

Life is beautiful as long as
You have someone to share it with.
But what are you supposed to do
When talking to self sounds like a kid.

Being all alone now is
Hell lot more different than it was sometime ago.
Cause now you know how
It feels like to forget all and let go.

Those memories still rack your brain
Like hungry rats searching for grain
Well! you can still do nothing about it
Because that was your life's happiest bit.

You just wish things could
Have turned out some other way.
Or maybe (s)he would have
Fought a bit longer to stay.

And then you are told that
nothing lasts forever.
But defying this rule of life
Was too much to ask for??

Too much of philosophy
And now you need to hear and get out of fiction.
No it really wasnt true love
Just another teenage infatuation.

There is so much more to life
Than love at this age.
Which might seem beautiful today
Could leave your ambitions in cage.

Drop your worries and live your life
This time wont come back.
Have the courage to walk at the tip of knife
All you need to do is step out of the "obvious" sac.

Maine Zindagi mein Bahut Dhokhe khaye Hain.......... Fruits and Vegetables ;) ;)

Oh God! Why are you always so serious ??

Guess what ? Even though that guy called you ugly yesterday; even though that girl rejected you twice; even though that teacher will still scold you; even though your friends ate your lunch and you were left hungry; at the end of the day- none of this is important enough to spoil your day. :)

For some other guy, you smile is still the 100-watt smile; that girl you never notice still hopes that someday you will ask her out; another teacher of yours still believes in you and knows you can do wonders; another student of your class still waits being asked to join you for lunch.

You see! Life is too short to focus upo the negatives. Though I don't deny, there are days when you feel blue for no reason, maybe for something that happened 6 months back. Never ever dwell in the negatives. And even in moments when thing look bleak- especially in those moments-see only perfection, express only gratefulness and then imagine only what manifestations of perfections you choose next. So get up! Shut the door at negativity's face. Show life that you can see the rainbow in the rain. For smile is what makes you eternally beautiful(even if that guy\girl you have a crush on doesn't care. I promise there will be somebody else who does.)

Good or Bad.... what's your choice today??

The good you do comes back to you, the bad you do remains with you.
Most of us don't really believe in the cycle of Karma-the account of all our good and bad deeds, which are compensated within this life. So, the question arises is it foolish to be good to someone who did bad to you ??
Well! According to me, the answer is you should still be good to that person, not because he has done anything good but solely because we can't lose our goodness just by experiencing one setback. For every soul is home to the Almighty and every person in your life serves a strong purpose which might not be visible as yet but with time you will realize that every bad had something good in it.
To be honest, these are not just talks of optimism, this is about the strong belief in the supreme power of God. Just in case your mind reaches the point where there is a contradiction between believing in God abd survivin in this world, then always remember: a momento of success made upon somebody else's grave will turn into ruins.
To end on a happy note: "Focus on your action and not the fruit. Sooner or later you will realize no good action ever goes unpaid. But don't forget, bad deeds are never forgotten either. What purpose of life do you want to serve?? The choice is solely yours..!!"

The Day Starts With Troubles

Life is full of troubles. Well how many times have you heard this? Honestly I hear this every
second day because someone or the other is in trouble regularly. And as soon as the term
teenager is associated with you… your problems increase manifold. But do you also think that
teenagers have more problems than the others. I don’t think so.
I feel that a teenage life is totally overrated. Our mom and dad are under lot more pressure than
we are. But still it’s just the people from our age group who crib. Ask any teenager and he will
tell you how difficult it is to survive in this world of cut-throat competition. But who cares that the
last generation worked without Google, Facebook or Whatsapp or on the whole- the internet.
Move little more years backwards and there was no computer. Did they not survive? Then why
are we cribbing.
I know handling pressure is not easy; but taking stress about it will not find the solution. It’s you
who will have to work hard, force the horses of your brain to do some work and try finding out a
solution. For those problems which don’t have a solution, just do one thing “Let It be”. Is it
difficult? Well... Not according to me.

DISCIPLINE- most of us hate this word. I don’t understand why? Just because we like doing
things our way. It’s not wrong but we need to understand why someone is teaching us to be in
discipline.  They have been through this. Oh yes... That is where the answer lies. They
understand! But we don’t.

Maybe you must be thinking that the person writing this is either crazy or else has a grudge for
teenagers. But none is true. Even I am a teenager. But it’s just that I feel that children my age
totally lack positive thinking. And I am no different.
How does all this make a difference? That is what I thought when I started writing this. I don’t
really have a concrete answer. But you don’t always need a strong reason to learn something
good. Right?