Honestly, nothing gives your self esteem a bigger blow than seeing somebody else's successful life on social media. People become stars overnight.. maybe within a wink of the eye( you get the reference, obviously xD)
What is the reason for lack of attachments in our generation from the people around them ? Why do we keep jumping from one distraction to another ? Why trends last only as long as a night ? But still not knowing about the newest trending meme makes you sound like you have been living under a rock ?
Every new book about that flawless beauty or that unbeatable billionaire or that genius from one of those prestigious colleges sells.
But ask yourself this: Are only pretty people or rich people or people with an insanely cool resumé the ones who ever live an interesting life?
Hell no!!
And if and when somebody raises the question about the need of being human instead of perfect, it is always accompanied by 'social acceptance' . Sample this: 'People with low self esteem need social acceptance.' Hell, kiski acceptance ? Arrey kaun hai yeh 'social acceptance' dene wale ?
So basically, being a normal flawed human being is not IN VOGUE anymore.
It is necessary to keep moving ahead, to achieving newer and better things in life.. but is it sane that our vision of success and happiness is clearly determined by the standards set up by lives of people on the internet ? By people you have never met and have no idea of how they are in real life ?
Your life will remain mediocre as long as you continue to believe that you deserve it.
I liked this one👍 even i was thinking to write on the same topic and by chance i read urs..related!
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